I understand that
digikoomi posted on her lj today accusing me of doing some crazy things. (no, she didn't use my name, but i got defriended so well, it's kinda obvious) Since she filtered me out of it, I don't know exactly what was said, but people have been giving me bits and pieces. Let me say this: anyone who knows me in real life can vouch for me, that I've never done those things, and I will defend myself at whatever cost regarding this matter - I'm just not the type of person who would do that kind of thing, and never, EVER, to one of my friends.
I also understand that Digi's been talking about me on filtered LJ entries for several months. Again, to make things clear: everything she had said about me, including the post today, are all lies. I have never done them.
Digi has been acting cruel and bullying me for more than 9 months. I admit, I am the kinda naive person that lets things like that hurt me and I ignore them. After all, we've been friends for years, and it hasn't been all bad. So when she said hurtful things, I just let it go. And I certainly never posted anything about the way she treated me online. Yeah, I know its just the internet, but we've all got our reputations. I wasn't about to drag her name in the dirt just cuz she insulted me. I believe people should make their own judgments about the friends they make. But, when I found out that she's been talking shit about me for months, people, MONTHS? That's no friend. I have no reason to protect her or to hurt myself on her behalf.
I understand that it's her word against mine. And that's fine with me. If you choose to believe her, please defriend me. There will be no drama, and I certainly will not hate you over something so small. Its just that I would rather have friends that form opinions about me by talking to me and hanging out with me rather than people who will accept the first gossip that comes their way.
I'm 27 years old. But so is Digi. And frankly, I'm just too old for this kind of petty, high school nonsense.
I know this got a little long. But in the end, I think it is for the best that no one take this too seriously, or too personally. In the end all of this should have kept been between Digi and I, since it was our friendship that was at stake. I had attempted to keep it that way, but I guess Digi felt that it needed to be publicized. And I am deeply hurt by her distrust and slander.
I would recommend that third parties just drop the matter as soon as possible.
Thanks for understanding guys.
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